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莉莲娜（薇诺娜·瑞德 Winona Ryder 饰）和薇琪（詹尼安·吉劳法罗 Janeane Garofalo 饰）是大学时代的好友，如今，早已毕业的两人依旧维持着室友兼好友的亲密关系。一次意外的车祸中，莉莲娜结识了英俊帅气的麦克（本·斯蒂勒 Ben Stiller 饰），一见钟情的两人开始了稳定的恋爱关系。 莉莲娜的铁杆好友特洛伊（伊桑·霍克 Ethan Hawke 饰）再一次的丢掉了工作，无处可去的他只得转向伊莲娜寻求庇护。特洛伊对伊莲娜的感情显然早已经超越了友情，所以，对于她和麦克之间的腻歪，特洛伊表现出了明确的不满。这边的三人纠缠不休，那边的薇琪也有着自己的烦恼，童年阴影让她对婚姻和爱情不再抱有幻想。还有他们共同的好友山姆（史蒂夫·茨恩 Steve Zahn 饰），身为同性恋者的他必须绞尽脑汁来隐藏自己的身份。
长篇影评
1 ) 女主迷人
因为以下这篇文章搜的看了看这个电影。7080年代的时尚感，女主真的简直迷死人！
剧情很混乱，啊哈哈哈，因为宝宝没看懂结局。
so，最后两人的理想呢？电影给了一个无解。。。。无解！
版权归作者所有，任何形式转载请联系作者。 作者：Lens（来自豆瓣） 来源：//www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch?uri=/note/600572403/ 她曾是好莱坞永远的少女，但她说，“我想被允许变老……” 在去年新剧Netflix 《怪奇物语》（Stranger Things）中，44岁的薇诺娜·赖德饰演 //www.douban.com/doubanapp/dispatch?uri=/note/600572403/
2 ) Stay (i missed you)
炎热的周六，把这张充满了青春回忆的DVD又放进了碟机。
片尾曲还是那么好听，DVD还收录了这曲的MTV，连着看了3次～
看来好的东西无论隔多长时间都会给人带来感动的。
stay (i missed you)
歌手：lisa loeb 专辑：reality bites
You say I only hear what I want to
And you say I talk so all the time-so
And I thought what I felt was simple
And I thought that I don't belong
And now that I am leaving
Now I know that I did something wrong cause I missed you
Yeah, I missed you
And you say I only hear what I want to
I don't listen hard
I don't pay attention to the distance that you're running or to
Anyone, anywhere
I don't understand if you really care
I'm only hearing negative, no no no - bad
So I turned the radio on I turned the radio up
And this woman was singing my song
The lover's in love and the other's run away
The lover is crying cause the other won't stay
And some of us hover when we weep for the other who was dying
Since the day they were born well
Well this is not that
I think that I'm throwing but I'm thrown
And I thought I'd live forever but now I'm not so sure
You try to tell me that I'm clever but that won't take me anyhow
Or anywhere with you
And you said that I was naive
And I thought that I was strong
I thought "hey I can leave, I can leave"
But now I know that I was wrong cause I missed you
Yeah I missed you
You said "you caught me cause you want me
And one day I'll let you go"
You try to give away a keeper or keep me cause you know
You're just too scared to lose
And you say, "stay"
You say I only hear what I want to
片尾曲还是那么好听，DVD还收录了这曲的MTV，连着看了3次～
看来好的东西无论隔多长时间都会给人带来感动的。
stay (i missed you)
歌手：lisa loeb 专辑：reality bites
You say I only hear what I want to
And you say I talk so all the time-so
And I thought what I felt was simple
And I thought that I don't belong
And now that I am leaving
Now I know that I did something wrong cause I missed you
Yeah, I missed you
And you say I only hear what I want to
I don't listen hard
I don't pay attention to the distance that you're running or to
Anyone, anywhere
I don't understand if you really care
I'm only hearing negative, no no no - bad
So I turned the radio on I turned the radio up
And this woman was singing my song
The lover's in love and the other's run away
The lover is crying cause the other won't stay
And some of us hover when we weep for the other who was dying
Since the day they were born well
Well this is not that
I think that I'm throwing but I'm thrown
And I thought I'd live forever but now I'm not so sure
You try to tell me that I'm clever but that won't take me anyhow
Or anywhere with you
And you said that I was naive
And I thought that I was strong
I thought "hey I can leave, I can leave"
But now I know that I was wrong cause I missed you
Yeah I missed you
You said "you caught me cause you want me
And one day I'll let you go"
You try to give away a keeper or keep me cause you know
You're just too scared to lose
And you say, "stay"
You say I only hear what I want to
3 ) 怎么都因为女的？Ethan Hawke说那些故作深沉的话还真迷人！
只是疯狂地找Ethan的片子，特别是Before Sunrise那个时期的，比如这部。
发型都没怎么变。这种不羁的大学毕业生如此栩栩如生似乎不需要任何演技。
这种故事似乎很老套，好朋友和男朋友。但是何尝不是至真至纯的爱情？
He said:"Nobody can eat 50 eggs"
He said:"Just out of curiosity,why are you suddenly acting like a jealous girlfriend?"
He said:"Well,honey,you can just exhale,because it's not gonna happen,not in this lifetime."
He said:"There's an I.Q.prerequsite,but there's no secret handshake."
He said:"You don't know what she needs."
He said:"Honey,all you have to be by the age of 23 is yourself."
He said:"I wanted you like this for all these years"
He said:"Besides,everybody dies all by himself."
He said:"What happened was like that...I kind of got this arscane glimpse at the universe,the best thing that I can say about that is...I don't know,I...I have this...this planet of regret sitting on my shoulders.And you have no idea how much I wish that I could go back to that morning after we made love and do everything different.But I know that I can't,so I thought I would come here and tell you something.And I wanted to tell you was that I love you.And..uh..wanted to make sure that that was clear,so that there wasn't any confusion."
那一些故作深沉的话，和那一些有点结巴的有点胆怯的话。
只是话而已，和Ethan，就够了。
发型都没怎么变。这种不羁的大学毕业生如此栩栩如生似乎不需要任何演技。
这种故事似乎很老套，好朋友和男朋友。但是何尝不是至真至纯的爱情？
He said:"Nobody can eat 50 eggs"
He said:"Just out of curiosity,why are you suddenly acting like a jealous girlfriend?"
He said:"Well,honey,you can just exhale,because it's not gonna happen,not in this lifetime."
He said:"There's an I.Q.prerequsite,but there's no secret handshake."
He said:"You don't know what she needs."
He said:"Honey,all you have to be by the age of 23 is yourself."
He said:"I wanted you like this for all these years"
He said:"Besides,everybody dies all by himself."
He said:"What happened was like that...I kind of got this arscane glimpse at the universe,the best thing that I can say about that is...I don't know,I...I have this...this planet of regret sitting on my shoulders.And you have no idea how much I wish that I could go back to that morning after we made love and do everything different.But I know that I can't,so I thought I would come here and tell you something.And I wanted to tell you was that I love you.And..uh..wanted to make sure that that was clear,so that there wasn't any confusion."
那一些故作深沉的话，和那一些有点结巴的有点胆怯的话。
只是话而已，和Ethan，就够了。
4 ) 血盆大口或没有答案？
电话账单如烟灰般飘落
像纪录片的开始那缕流苏
和一整个学生时代
那是
加油站超市里的摇摆
5块钱的咖啡和烟
答案我不知道?
所以早上好,毕业生们
接受恶心的笑
找个男友
那是
pizza被切成几块
终于说出的话
答案是血盆大口
门廊内外
青草或阳光都无关
找不到的词语
那是
迟到的孩子终于长大
早退的激情听见火车汽笛
其实没有答案
像纪录片的开始那缕流苏
和一整个学生时代
那是
加油站超市里的摇摆
5块钱的咖啡和烟
答案我不知道?
所以早上好,毕业生们
接受恶心的笑
找个男友
那是
pizza被切成几块
终于说出的话
答案是血盆大口
门廊内外
青草或阳光都无关
找不到的词语
那是
迟到的孩子终于长大
早退的激情听见火车汽笛
其实没有答案
5 ) 因为Winona Ryder……
因为很喜欢Winona Ryder,所以在驴仔上下载了这部戏。
想不到Ben Stiller也可以拍并且导演这种类型的电影（因为对他了解不多，觉得他是拍娱乐搞笑片的）！
Winona Ryder在里面真的很漂亮，当时才22岁左右吧，果真是青春无敌啊！印象较深很深的是：她在里面皮肤好白皙哦！而且虽然穿的不怎么样，但别有一番味道（应该是“情人眼里出西施”吧！）
很喜欢这部电影！是一部非常不错的爱情小品！不过认同一些评论所说的，叙述爱情的部分过多，反映大学生毕业后初涉社会的其他迷惘笔墨较少。否则，应该会成为一部不错的青春疼痛片（有没有这种定义的？）吧！
想不到Ben Stiller也可以拍并且导演这种类型的电影（因为对他了解不多，觉得他是拍娱乐搞笑片的）！
Winona Ryder在里面真的很漂亮，当时才22岁左右吧，果真是青春无敌啊！印象较深很深的是：她在里面皮肤好白皙哦！而且虽然穿的不怎么样，但别有一番味道（应该是“情人眼里出西施”吧！）
很喜欢这部电影！是一部非常不错的爱情小品！不过认同一些评论所说的，叙述爱情的部分过多，反映大学生毕业后初涉社会的其他迷惘笔墨较少。否则，应该会成为一部不错的青春疼痛片（有没有这种定义的？）吧！
6 ) 喜剧
伊桑霍克也有如此英俊的时刻！ 果然魅力不光是高大帅气，还得有一点点忧郁，最好还有才华。 笨蛋没有魅力。 浪子，是女人心目中的喜马拉雅山脉。 好了。 这个1994年的电影有一次证明了谁都有青春期。 而且94年的美国真像现在的中国。 离婚，癌症，失业，YP，艾滋病，性开放，各种流行文化充斥着人们的心灵。 传统观念崩塌，不再有人费心维护旧世界的价值观。 人们更找不到爱情的动力或是维持某种稳定关系的目的。 人都是生而孤独，默默死去。
除了看薇诺娜的脸以外，剧情都看不下去。
几根烟，热咖啡，聊会儿天，和你一起就没啥过不去的坎。结局虽然老套但困境依然无解，算是没有彻底妥协吧。Ben Stiller也有颜值可以抵抗Ethan Hawke的时候，神奇
Winona Ryder, Ethan Hawke.不是偶喜欢的那类。没有任何主题。
歌美人靓时光早，青春作伴好还乡。
看着特洛伊和麦克在酒吧外面争吵，感觉就是典型的一个美丽痞子男和一个敦厚老实男在争取一个女人，而往往最后，女人选择前者。要么是因为灵魂深处的观念一致，要么也可能是因为乖乖女往往被以往生活中不常见的坏男人的潇洒不羁所吸引。总之，无论是什么样的女人，都会选择美丽的”坏男人“，因为这是戏剧，而非生活。
Honey,all you have to be by the age of 23 is yourself.
现实题材的大学毕业生阵痛期挣扎，不过后面发展成了chick flick。但伊桑霍克和薇诺娜的美貌拯救一切，Ben Stiller当导演的尝试还挺不一样。【字幕制作中，非常多。。。】
"我喜欢专注于细节，像1/4磅的美味奶酪，下雨前10分钟的天空，笑声变成咯咯声的瞬间，休息的时候抽骆驼牌香烟，自己做三明治""我可没有接到命令要改变世界""你23岁要做的就是做回你自己"...........比电影更爱的是对白
EthanHawke有种忧伤的诗人气质。
看睡着了。几个年轻人步入社会后的生活即景。这种题材一般有记录时代的意图，同时在人物关系的亲疏张弛里传达青春的生命况味。本片也有同样动机，比如薇诺娜拍生活录像带的创作尝试，以及她跟霍克、斯蒂勒的三角关系。但实际执行层面一塌糊涂，斯蒂勒作为导演，有跟世界各地演员出身的导演同样的常见毛病：把电影承载表演的一面看得太重，演员表演用力，如果消音的话会幻觉所有台词都是fuck！yes！这样，而同样为了强化突出卖力表演的环节，剧情重视事件造成的结果而非过程，就导致叙事跳跃甚至前言不搭后语，比如薇诺娜很斯蒂勒因车祸相识，接着两人在办公室见面又遭遇人猿星球手办摔碎——这戏就是为了表现俩人关系的可能性嘛，但非要让动作化的元素喧宾夺主，台词却写得绕开了核心动机。霍克对薇诺娜的感情演进本来能编制出剧情主线，但也被冲散了
四个毕业生对于未来、生活、情感方面的迷惘和痛苦挣扎。青春逼人，太有朝气的电影。彼时的薇诺娜真是明艳动人，一颦一笑不可方物；霍克也是痞帅痞帅的，撩人心弦。为了二位的盛世美颜硬是啃下了这么糟心的字幕，颜值即是正义，还能再爱一百年系列。
Reality Bites is really bad....
结局幸福的想哭。。。Ethan Hawke 太帅，Winona是我最喜欢的女星，Ben Stiller很有才~~他不搞笑，为什么我一看见他的脸还想笑？
“You see, Laney, this is all we need, a couple of smokes, a cup of coffee and a little bit of conversation. You and me and five bucks.”；[铁窗喋血]的五十个鸡蛋梗；颜值巅峰的WR和EH；-“顺便，每个人都会孤独地死去的”-“如果你真的信这句话，那你又在这儿找谁呢？”
All you have to be by the age of 23 is yourself.
我在电视上看这电影的第二天在书店买到了这个电影，半价不说还是十周年纪念版...
oh my god,Ethan Hawke is so attractive!!!和在Before Sunrise里的角色感觉是同一款的，好想和他谈恋爱（劳资很少玛丽苏的好吗），没有中字都看得这么心花怒放不管就要给五星。Winona也美爆了，好般配！
Ethan Hawke, Winona Ryder, and Ben Stiller, what would we expect more?
作为一个正值23岁的人，我可以很负责任地说，电影把23岁的作描写得淋漓尽致啊。生气就随心所欲地发泄，吵架就是拼了命地反讽，使劲儿地尖酸刻薄，害怕责任，各种commitment issue……青春片挑了正当年的演员就已经成功的大半，wiona和ethan的青春气息和盛世美颜真是屏幕挡都挡不住！
Ethan Hawke在这个电影里很不讨喜